Remove the outer skin enclosing the seeds once you extract them from the aril. Wash and let it dry for a couple of days.
The white skin covering the seeds will dry up and you can easily remove it. I have removed it very easily by microwaving the seeds for 10 secs spurts.
Putting it in the microwave dries up the moisture and you can easily peel it off.
Chop into smaller bits using a sharp knife. This is the tough part as the seeds are very hard. So using a very sharp chef knife will help.
Heat a pan, and dry roast the chopped seeds until they are crisp and start to brown. Remove and keep it aside.
In the same pan, add urad dal and dry roast. Next, add the coconut and roast well.
Add a teaspoon of oil and roast the rest of the ingredients one by one or all together.
Saute 2-3 mins. Switch off, add hing and let it cool down.
Take this mixture into a mixer jar and grind it to a powder along with salt.
Store in an airtight container and enjoy with Dosa idli or even mix it with hot steamed rice with ghee.